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7/25/2018

Minimum Viable Passion

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That’s how it goes when you’re sick. Your body doesn’t discriminate between the “gotta do’s” and the “get to do’s”...
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    I’ve been sick this week. Not the gradually slow-moving lava that creeps until you are finally full-blown “sick” - but the 0 to 60 sick where one minute you feel good, the next minute you’re iffy and the next minute you can’t hold your head up. On Sunday, Monday and Tuesday, I slept until noon. Noon! Usually if I’m sick, I may be in and out of sleep, or desperately wanting sleep, but can’t get more than an hour here or there.

    I was home from work and #amazinghubby did everything, not just for me and for the kids starting back at school, but he was on stomach flu duty with Mr. 6 on Tuesday. Aside from sleeping, I just laid in bed, taking full advantage of Netflix auto play and listening to audio books. (BTW - what does it say if the first book I burned through while sick in bed was Marie Kondo’s “The Magical Art of Tidying Up”?) It was a forced break from everything and, while it clearly shows my trouble letting go of control on the work front; I really struggled with missing crocheting and the blog and sharing fun pics.

    Clearly, Gray Day Crochet is my passion project. I’m plenty busy with my 9-5 and looking after 2 exuberant monkeys 🐒 🐒 - but not being able to do anything for the site left me really unsettled. Being sick doesn’t just mean some of the unsavory jobs are paused or covered by others, but it also means the good stuff is on hiatus. We all remember the disappointment from being sick as s kid and missing out on a birthday party or other exciting activity. In December, hubby wanted to fulfill a dream and rented a Mustang to drive around Hawaii because he’d been sharing a passion for Mustangs all year with Mr. 6. When the day arrived, Mr. 6 has the stomach flu (again! He seems to get that a lot.) So he was stuck in our room for the day and missed the adventure we’d been hyping for ages. That’s how it goes when you’re sick. Your body doesn’t discriminate between the “gotta do’s” and the “get to do’s” - you just shut down and miss out on all of this.

    One of the biggest negatives is the loss of the renewing effects of my passion project. Part of the reason I spend any time on it at all is the enormous benefits that a little bit of effort unlocks. My crocheting reduces stress and builds relationships with the people in my life as I pour my heart into a project for someone. The online communities build wonderful networks of kindred spirits who get this quirky niche and connect with the technical sides of the craft. Writing patterns stimulates my creativity and really allows me to channel a lot of my subconscious energy into something productive. I get mental, emotional and physical benefits from crocheting and when I’m sick, I feel the need for those benefits most acutely.

    While there is a role for accepting the forced rest that being sick thrusts upon you, this time around, I started thinking about it there were any crochet benefits I could still access while sick. What was my MVP (Minimum Viable Passion)? As I thought through this I came up with a few options. 1) Enjoy the crochet inspiration on Insta. 2) Connect with the online forums. 3) Find the most basic project and see if I can do anything on it while lying sick in bed.

    I was able to do some of each of those things. Rather than an all or nothing stance, I was able to find a 5-10% option that still gave me some of the benefits I yearn for in my crocheting pursuits. And that MVP input delivered an amazing yield. Because I was so desperate, every bit of benefit made a big difference.

    Maybe the biggest shift was in my mentality. Rather than focusing on what I couldn’t do, I focused on what I could do. I moved from an attitude of disappointment to an attitude of possibility. I was profoundly thankful for my MVP. Now the challenge is to work out how to apply this attitude and gratefulness to the other areas of my life.

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7/15/2018

Convertible Coziness

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Teens and young adults now expect every device in our life to be multi-function. Having something with a very narrow purpose just feels like a waste. ​
​I don’t think I’m afraid of commitment, but I do struggle to commit to a static option if there is a flexible alternative. For some reason, this is most clearly shown in my furniture choices. We have long been on the hunt for a dining table, but even an extendable table feels like a risk because it may not fit in any dining room. What I truly want is a table that can be small rectangle, large rectangle or big square depending on the space. (If anyone knows of such a table - DM me!)

My couch may be the best example of my love for convertible objects. Other than secondhand couches from Craigslist, we wanted to buy a new couch for the first time when we were living in Minnesota. For months we had channeled Goldilocks and did the obligatory furniture showroom-hopping. To tall. Too deep. Too squishy. Too hard. To ugly (looking at you, La-Z-boy). To posh (needs to withstand the stomach flu test). We kept going around in circles and one day, we stopped by the Lovesac shop in the Mall of America. The dimensions were perfect for our short fam. The cushion covers were machine washable. But the thing that sealed the deal? The sectional was rearrangeable - like Legos for adults. Sectional with chaise lounge? Check! Movie lounger? Check! Sleeper for visiting guests? Check! This couch has turned out to be 100% marvelous and it was one of the few items of furniture that made the move to Australia with us.

We’re also a huge fan of storage benches or storage ottomans. I think something being versatile really is the biggest selling factor for me.

I heard a teacher once talk about why anyone who wears a watch must be over 35. A traditional watch is mono-function. Teens and young adults now expect every device in our life to be multi-function. Having something with a very narrow purpose just feels like a waste. Like giving up precious kitchen space to an avocado slicer. If we’re going to invest energy, space and resources in something, we want a bang for our buck.

This is exactly what was motivating me when I came up with the Acorn Button Wrap. I love to crochet wraps, but I rarely wear them. I often feel like it may work with one outfit or one temperature, but it usually doesn’t work for others. The beauty of this is that for the times I’m in the mood for a shrug, I’ve got a shrug. If I want a drapey poncho, I can rock that too. When my shoulders are cold, it’s my go to capelet (especially good in Winter when you’re in bed or watching a movie and want extra warmth on your top half). It’s just so fun and I love that I can take the same amount of effort in crocheting one accessory and use it for many things.

This wrap is equal parts form and function and I’m already itching to make another one for someone.

P.s. In writing this blog post, I kept thinking if the movie “27 Dresses” when they say how great each dress is “because you can wear it again . This convertible wrap may sound far-fetched, but it really is something that I use and change up to suit my mood, so it feels like I’ve got many accessories in one. But don’t take my word for it - try it yourself and let me know what you think :)
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7/7/2018

Spin a yarn

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The Lady and the Unicorn - Wikipedia Commons
This bridge between visual and verbal communication is something we seldom think about, but I think there is a profound relationship between the different forms of expression and communication.
Spin a yarn. Weave a tapestry. Arts and crafts or storytelling? Expressing ourselves through stories and creative arts are not only a deep and foundational aspect of who we are, but they are also closely linked to each other. Sailors used to mend ropes by spinning individual strands (yarn) into the larger rope. A tedious job that leant itself to entertainment through prolonged storytelling. The only time I have spun yarn was on a second grade field trip to the Minnesota History Center. There was a Native American installation that had wool roving that we could spin into yarn. There is something so deeply satisfying about taking a formless bit of something and shaping it into something strong and full of purpose and potential.

And yet, this is only getting it to a starting state. Unless you are using it as a strand, the actual value of the yarn is in what you make from it. In this context, it is not a huge leap to move from making something functional to making something expressive. When I was learning to crochet, I remember a couple of breakthroughs that really stimulated my imagination and solidified my love for the craft. The first was learning how to make shells and scallops. To think that something using the very simple technique of double crochet, but changing it by just making 5 stitches in the same stitch was a game changer. I loved the shape and variation they gave. They were intuitive, allowed me to work at a mile a minute and they were so much fun. The next breakthrough was learning how to change colors. This took a bit of time to work out how to do it well and not have it feel like a major hassle. I imagine I’m like most stitchers in my strong dislike for weaving in loose ends. More colors = more ends to weave in. It wasn’t until I learned that I could usually stitch over the tails as I go, that I found the ROI for color work worth it. (Now, of course, I have a hard time sticking with one color.)

I am enthralled by the textures and colors in early weaving and fabric arts. Across the whole world, people came up with their own patterns, sometimes just for looks, but often carrying such significance. There is something uplifting about incorporating a stunning design that allows even a simple project to speak and take on a life of its own. This bridge between visual and verbal communication is something we seldom think about, but I think there is a profound relationship between the different forms of expression and communication.

I wonder if early weavers entertained themselves by telling stories and then decided to start incorporating the stories themselves into their weaving. The Lady and the Unicorn has been in our local art museum recently and I’m amazed at the detail and depth in tapestries from 500+ years ago. The ability to think through a complex idea and weave it into a pictorial representation is enchanting. The thought and care for each placement of a thread draws you in to each of the movements and choices made to work this masterpiece.

Even beyond the expressive design or direct representation in textile art, the nature of the work itself correlated with our communication. Did you hear a tight knit story or was it a loose story? We’re there holes in it? Was the story reinforced? Did it leave any loose ends? I think that the parallels between communication and yarn crafts go beyond the intentional expressive choices and appeal to tactile understandings and the subconscious factors that play into our stories. Tension control is unique from person to person, but influences every project we put our hands to. Similarly, our stories and the way we communicate will have a natural default setting unless we make a conscious effort to influence it. I once read about a woman whose grandmother taught her to thread a needle and then run her hand across the thread 100 times to infuse it with love that would hold the project together. Most of the time, I’m making something with just the end product in mind, but more and more, I want to be expressive and intentional in my work. I want to approach the work in the projects as important as the finished piece. I want to be telling a story and imbibing it with love and purpose. I know this will vary from project to project (and mood to mood), but I think it will help my finished products to benefit and I will unlock the opportunity to process and express my feelings and stories along the way.
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Navajo Rug - Wikipedia Commons

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